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Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Not Just Your Neighbor or Your Enemy For That Matter...


Isn’t it amazing how reading just a few Bible verses can wreck you? They can take your whole view on something and turn it upside down in seconds. I’ve been working my way through the book of Matthew lately and today in one of my classes we were told to do a devotional assignment, it didn’t matter what you read or how much just that you read something in the bible and then wrote down your thoughts on the passage. So naturally I chose to do the devotion on the next part in Matthew that I was going to read anyway.

Now usually when I read the Bible I tend to speed through passages I know really well because I think I know them and I want to get to a part that I’m not too familiar with. But do you know that sometimes God can teach you more with a story you’ve read a million times than with one you’ve never even laid eyes on? God threw me for a loop today as I read Matthew 5:43-48 it’s the passage in Matthew where Jesus is talking about loving your enemies. Now if you’ve been reading my blog for a while you’ll know that I’m doing something called the Love Challenge 2013 and I’m currently seeking after God and asking Him to teach me about love. And let me tell you, He’s already started the teaching.

I have always looked at this passage as simply love your enemies, nothing more and nothing less. But as I took a closer look at it today I began to see something different in this passage. Firstly it’s not only talking about loving your enemies but also blessing them, doing good to them and praying for them. Love is an all around thing, you can’t just say “I love you.” You have to act on it and follow through. You see love is a choice and it is shown not with words but by actions. You don’t just tell your boyfriend or girlfriend you love them, you do things for them to show it. You spend time with them, give them gifts, hold the door open for them, give them your attention and advice along with many other things. We are suppose to act this way with our enemies as well. We are called to care about those who are against us, who spit curses at us, throw us the finger, and cut us off on the road. We should pray for those who hate us, who’ve hurt us physically and emotionally, who’ve abused us and stolen from us. Jesus didn’t just say love enemies who’ve lied to you but don’t love that guy who took your life savings or stole your I-phone He said love your enemies that means all of them. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” We’ve all done wrong, the bible doesn’t say one sin is worse than another. But we are also told that God forgives all sins, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)  If we are to become more like Christ we must be able to forgive anyone of all things and love everyone just as God loves everyone.

God’s love is so great for everyone that He sent His son to die in order to was away all of our sins and allow us into His family. Once we’ve accepted Christ into our lives we start the process of becoming more like Him. This doesn’t just mean becoming nicer and always following the rules, but it really means that God wants to make us into His son. Jesus loved everyone, He came in order to give the hope of salvation to all the world. God’s heart is for people and as we get closer to God our hearts should begin to match His as well. This means we should have a heart for everyone. Jesus illustrates this in Mark 12:31 where He says, “Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.”  We are told to love everyone, the good and the bad, just like God does. Going back to my original passage in Matthew if you go on to read after Jesus tells us to love our enemies He says something else that I always took just to apply to enemies as well. Matthew 5:46-48 says, “For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? 48 Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.” Even lost people greet their friends and love others, we see it all the time, the good people. So what are we doing to stand out from the crowd? What are we doing to show that our God is real and that He loves everyone? Well Jesus just told us, love your enemies, but not just that love your neighbor. Now neighbor doesn’t just refer to the guy living next to you or the family who lives down the street from you but it means everyone. Why? Because God does, and we are God’s light to the world. How else will people see that we are different if we treat them like they treat everyone else? If we chew out the store clerk because they got our order wrong or if we cut people off on the road because we’re in a hurry and their just moving too slow we are acting just like the world. “Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.” (Matthew 5:48) We need to follow Jesus’ example and treat everyone the way we’d treat our best friend or our parents.

I’m not saying it will be easy, nope you don’t just wake up one day and say ‘I think I’m going to love everyone like their my best friend today’. It is a process. But we need to begin to do it, first in obedience to God’s word and then as you grow in God you will find that you’ve truly begun to care for the people of this world in the way God does, with love and compassion. If we can show this love not only in our actions but our prayers as well, then it will help to open people up to the thought of Christ. They will begin to see Him in us and a seed will be planted in their life that could someday grow into a relationship with the Lord. So go out and show the love of God today and see how they react. I dare you. 

More Verses to Consider:

John 3:16 
Romans 5:8
Ephesians 2:4-5
1 John 4:7-8
Job 34:19
Matthew 6:14-15
Acts 3:19
Ephesians 1:7

Friday, January 25, 2013

The Love Challenge 2013

I'm a sucker for romance, you name it books, movies, music I love it all. I'm not afraid to say that I know every word to One Direction's What Makes You Beautiful and Taylor Swift's Love Story or that I've seen Letters to Juliet at least 5 times. I'd like to think I'm not the only lover of romance out there, there are plenty of people I know personally (guys and girls) who love a good chick flick. So what am I getting at you might ask. Well next month is the month of love also known as February and God's been talking to me a lot about love lately.

You see, love is everywhere, or at least we think it is. The media has flooded us with untold numbers of chick flicks, romance novels, and mushy gushy songs, not to mention all the "What kind of Girlfriend are you? and What's Your Perfect Type?" quizzes that we find in magazines these days. We are overstimulated with the massive amounts of 'love' that's being pumped into our society. This has drastic effects on people as a whole. With every movie we watch and every book we read our view on love changes. We begin to have expectations of what love should and should not be. The problem now is that these expectations are false. Chick flicks give us a condensed version of love that takes us on an adventure from the chance meeting to falling for you then the big break up happens and finally we get a happy ending. That my friends is not how it is in real life. Some relationships don't work out, and others don't have a big break up caused by a bet both people in the relationship made for a job (hint hint, How to Loose a Guy in 10 Days). No they are far more complicated than that and the warped version of love the world is pouring into us has begun to change our mindsets. Don't you ever wonder why so many relationships fail and so many couples get divorced? I'd have to say a good deal of it has to do with our skewed vision on what love is. We have expectations of our relationships that just simply cannot be met and when they aren't things fall apart very quickly.

Lately God has began to show me all the places in my own life that I have these kind of preconceptions and I feel that He is asking me to dedicate February to allow Him to teach me what love is and all about it. Not only will I let Him teach me about love but I want to allow Him to take away the stereotypes that have built up in my mind. How am I going to do this? I am going to completely avoid watching romantic movies, reading chick lit, and listening to romantic songs. Basically I'm planning to remove myself from the realm of media induced romance. Now I'm not saying that I'm giving up personal relationships that would be silly. I am just trying to distance myself from anything that will influence my worldview of love.

I want to challenge each and everyone reading this to do the same. I believe that if you do then God will work greatly in your life over the month of February.  If you are thinking about doing this but still have questions check the Love Challenge 2013 page on this blog or click here. I have a summery of what I've written here, a list of do's and don'ts a list of frequently asked questions, (or questions I think may be frequently asked...) and a few other things. I'd love to hear from you if you decide to take the Love Challenge. If you have any stories about love and what God's doing for you from the challenge you want to share you can e-mail me at thelovechallange2013@hotmail.com and I will love to hear them! I'd also like to post them throughout February on the blog so if you want them posted just tell me and I'll put it up. I can do it anonymously or using any name you give me, whichever you wish.

I hope you all decide to take the Love Challenge this February and are greatly blessed for it!

God Bless!